And if you feel you must marry, do yourself a favour: have separate bathrooms. It might save your marriage. Not to mention your sanity. *** (Expectations, Fashion, Work, First Date, First Kiss, Love, Sex, The Right Guy) Be strong, be outspoken, be fearless - the best kind of men will love you for it, and the worst kind of men will run away. Which can only mean good news! Have dreams, ambitions, standards, expectations! Aspire to do something important, or brave, or useful, or